The Spectrum of Love

A narcissist is a person who love themselves;

 they only love themselves because they only see themselves as the remaining self.

For those who believes in the spirit of love;

love is selfless and your love is willing to sacrifice your own self.

Love is from within your soul; love can change your soul but your soul will not change because of love.  Those who can love with their soul are the ones who received a gift from God, the spirit of love.